Rachel (moosmama468) wrote,
Rachel
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Borderline Personality Disorder

I found this passage, written by a psychologist, and thought a certain one of you would find it interesting...

"The borderline patient is a therapist's nightmare. Durning my training years, before I decided to specialize in children, I treated more than my share of them and learned that the hard way.

Or, rather, I tried to treat them. Because borderlines never really get better. The best you can do is help them coast, without getting sucked into their pathology. At first glance they look normal, sometimes even supernormal, holding down high-pressure jobs and excelling. But they walk a constant tightrope between madness and sanity, unable to form relationships, incapable of achieving insight, never free from a deep, corroding sense of worthlessness and rage that spills over, inevitably, into self-destruction.

They're the chronically depressed, the determinedly addictive, the compulsively divorced, living from one emotional disaster to the next. Bed hoppers, stomach pumpers, freeway jumpers, and sad-eyed bench sitters with arms stitched up like footballs and psychic wounds that can never be sutured. Their egos are as fragile as spun sugar, their psyches irretrievably fragmented, like a jigsaw puzzle with crucial pieces missing. They play roles with alacrity, excel at being anyone but themselves, crave intimacy but repel it when they find it. Some of them gravitate toward stage or screen; others do their acting in more subtle ways.

No one knows how or why a borderline becomes a borderline. The Freudians clam it's due to emotional deprivation during the first two years of life; the biochemical engineers blame faulty wiring. Neither school claims to be able to help them much.

Borderlines go from therapist to therapist, hoping to find a magic bullet for the crushing feelings of emptiness. They turn to chemical bullets, gobble tranquilizers and antidepressants, alcohol and cocaine. Embrace gurus and heaven-hucksters, any charismatic creep promising a quick fix of the pain. And they end up taking temporary vacations in psychiatric wards and prison cells, emerge looking good, raising everyone's hopes. Until the next letdown, real or imagined, the next excursion into self-damage.

What they don't do is change."
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sounds way too familiar! Damn our disorders!
Seriously! Sometimes I get a little sick of being full of the crazy, haha.

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I'll check it out.
Uhhh... I don't know who that was directly aimed at... but... HOLYCRAPTHATISRIGHTONTHEMONEY for a certain someone I know... Like... Crazy! [no pun intended :P]

*Resisting urge to repost*... lol
Haha, totally not who I was referring to, but it does fit!
I don't know who you were directing this towards on LJ, but damn if this doesn't sound like the guy was writing about Britney Spears. Was this written a week ago, or something?
Uhm, no. This was written several years ago. Good try, though.